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The Emotional Bank Account: Align Commitments, Explanations, and Actions

Summary

Learn to use the emotional bank account as a metaphor, record actual commitments, respect new-request choices, and repair differences in expectations.

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Use the Emotional Bank Account as a Metaphor and Review Actual Actions

The emotional bank account describes relationship trust through a banking metaphor. Use it to review commitments and actions rather than as an objective balance.

Responses vary with circumstances and experience. Past help does not make agreement to a new request automatic.

Distinguish the Metaphor from Observable Records

FranklinCovey describes the emotional bank account as a metaphor for relationship trust. (FranklinCovey: Emotional Bank Account) Record actual agreements and actions at work.

Avoid converting help counts into obligations for others.

Align Commitments with Delivery

Specify scope, dates, and completion criteria. Reassess remaining work and capacity when changes are needed.

Keep public descriptions aligned with actual service and prices.

Investigate Different Expectations and Repair the Explanation

Compare the information provided when expectations differ. Investigate the actual circumstances.

Update missing public explanations and intake methods.

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Frequently asked questions

Q: Can the balance be calculated objectively?

A: It is a relationship metaphor.

Q: Does past help create an obligation?

A: Agree on each new request against its work and effort.

Q: What should work records contain?

A: Agreed scope, dates, and actual actions.

Q: What if expectations differ?

A: Compare explanations and actions and repair gaps.

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